REBROADCAST: High Conflict Emotion Contagion
The challenge of being emotional creatures
Did you know that emotions are contagious? We like to think we are in complete control of our emotions, but lots of research shows that emotions are contagious and it’s how we handle our own emotions once we’re emotionally hooked.
In this episode we’ll break down emotion contagion. If you’re a brain nerd like us, or you simply want to have a better understanding of human behavior and the impact of unmanaged emotions on others, you’ll enjoy this episode. Specifically, we’ll discuss:
- Can you get emotionally “hooked?” and “unhooked?”
- How exactly are emotions contagious? How does that work in our brains?
- Can emotions lead us to make bad decisions?
- How do High Conflict People deal with emotions?
- How do High Conflict People communicate differently using their emotions?
- Are emotions part of why we have such angry polarization today in families and in politics?
- What can we do to calm down emotions
Links & Other Notes
- BIFF for everyone
- BIFF for Coparent Communication
- BIFF for Workplace
Calming Upset People with EAR
ON DEMAND COURSE
- The Brain 101: For Lawyers & Anyone
Who Are High Conflict People?
- Managing Emotions
Keep the Conflict Small! (With Managed Emotions)
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Note: We are not diagnosing anyone in our discussions, merely discussing patterns of behavior.
- 00:00 – Welcome to It’s All Your Fault
- 01:42 – Emotionally Hooked & Unhooked
- 05:22 – Getting Hooked
- 07:16 – Emotional Persuasion
- 13:13 – In the Brain
- 21:33 – Emotions Leading to Bad Decisions
- 24:48 – HCPs Dealing With Emotions
- 27:57 – Communicating with Emotions
- 29:23 – Polarization
- 34:40 – Calming Emotions
- 36:46 – Reminders & Coming Next Week: HCPs in Love
Each week, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter will be exploring the five types of people who can ruin your life — people with high conflict personalities — and how they weave themselves into our lives in romance, at work, next door, at school, places of worship, and just about everywhere, causing chaos, exhaustion, and dread for everyone else.