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It's All Your Fault, the podcast from High Conflict Institute • Episode 110: Holiday Conflict Resolution

Holiday Conflict Reduction

December 23, 2021

What causes conflict? Differing ideas and opinions do, but most people can manage it, although extraordinary circumstances, time pressures and stress can click the conflict dial to max for just about anyone. But when you’re dealing with someone with a hig

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It's All Your Fault • the podcast from the High Conflict Institute • episode 109: Living on the Edge: Borderline High Conflict People

Living on the Edge: Borderline High Conflict People

December 16, 2021

In this episode we explore the borderline high conflict personality — the final in the five types of people series. In the previous four episodes we talked about Narcissistic, Antisocial, Paranoid, and Histrionic HCPs (high conflict people). Listen in as

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Living with Suspicion: Paranoid High Conflict People

Living With Suspicion: Paranoid High Conflict People

December 9, 2021

In this episode, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter continue talking about the five types of people who can ruin your life, specifically Paranoid HCPs. This one has always been a little confusing for people because the other four types can also appear to have par

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Dealing with Drama: Histrionic High Conflict People

Dealing with Drama: Histrionic High Conflict People

December 2, 2021

If you’ve spent much time around someone with a histrionic high conflict personality, you know how exhausting interactions with them can be. Plus, their M.O. in life is ‘it’s all about me,’ creating lop-sided relationships and one-way interactions. Settin

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The Sociopath: Antisocial High Conflict People

The Sociopath: Antisocial High Conflict People

November 25, 2021

If you’ve been the Target of Blame for an Antisocial HCP, you know the terror and helplessness they exact and the toll they take. Because they’re highly manipulative, and charming, it’s easy to get conned by them. Instead, learning what to watch for is im

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Narcissistic High Conflict People

Narcissistic High Conflict People

November 18, 2021

If you’ve been the Target of Blame for a narcissistic HCP, you know the devastating impact it can have. It’s easy to get emotionally hooked by their aggressive behaviors and respond with aggression or avoidance, which emboldens them. Instead, learning the

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It's All Your Fault, the podcast from High Conflict Institute, with Bill Eddy & Megan Hunter • Episode 104: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life

The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life

November 11, 2021

In this episode, Bill and Megan give an overview of the five types of personality disorders that can become HCPs – narcissistic, borderline, antisocial, paranoid, or histrionic personality disorders or traits – why the ways we interact with them don’t wor

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It's All Your Fault: The High Conflict People Podcast • episode 103: HCPs in the Workplace & Using BIFF at Work

HCPs in the Workplace & Using BIFF at Work

November 4, 2021

In today’s episode, we talk about High Conflict People in the workplace, focusing on managing a narcissistic boss and using the BIFF Response® and EAR Statement™ tools we discussed last week. Tune in to find out more!

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Using BIFF Responses

October 28, 2021

Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter talk about using BIFF Responses, which are responses to use when a High Conflict Person sends you a hostile communication via email, text, social media post, letter, or the like. Tune in to find out how to deal with these!

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Who Are High Conflict People?

October 21, 2021

Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter define and talk about who are high conflict people. They also explore the use of EAR Statements to diffuse situations with HCPs.

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