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It's All Your Fault episode 227

High Conflict People in Mediation, Emotional Triggers in BIFF Responses, and Hereditary Antisocial Personality Disorder

April 6, 2023

In this episode, Bill and Megan continue answering listener questions: “I am a family mediator. My practice focuses on keeping people out of court and helping them navigate their divorce in mediation. In my experience, high conflict personalities do NOT do well in this kind of mediation. It’s as if they “need” the authority of…

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It's All Your Fault episode 226

Narcissistic Co-Parents, Borderline Spouses, and Intimidating Behaviors

March 30, 2023

In this episode Megan and Bill answer listener questions: “I’m going through a high conflict custody case with someone who it would appear has some form of Narcissistic High Conflict Personality. I was wondering if you could point me in a useful direction regarding how to help my toddler through this really terrible custody battle…

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It's All Your Fault • episode 141

Are Personality Disorders a Mental Illness?

July 28, 2022

Bill and Megan discuss what’s considered a mental illness or disorder, how personality disorders differ, if they’re a form of mental illness, links between personality disorders and prominent cases, how courts regard them, and more.

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It's All Your Fault • Episode 140

Narcissists: The Great Dividers

July 21, 2022

Bill and Megan talk about how narcissistic high conflict people are the Great Dividers. They look at how and where this manifests, why we don’t see it coming, how to address it, and more.

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It's All Your Fault episode 139

What If I’m High Conflict?

July 14, 2022

Have you wondered if you are high conflict? If you have, you’re not alone. In this episode, Bill and Megan talk about identifying patterns that might mean you’re high conflict and what you should do about it.

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It's All Your Fault episode 138

Can People with High Conflict Personalities Change?

July 7, 2022

Bill and Megan talk about whether HCPs know they’re high conflict, whether they can change, and if so, what does it take to help them do so?

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It's All Your Fault episode 137

Q and A Lab: Paranoid Personalities

June 30, 2022

Megan and Bill return for another Q&A discussion, this time focusing on two questions about paranoid personality and high conflict behaviors.

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It's All Your Fault episode 135

On Being a Megaphone: Should You Tell the Judge, Boss, HR, or Others That the other Person is High Conflict?

June 16, 2022

Megan and Bill talk about who you should tell – if anyone – about someone in your life who is high conflict or has a personality disorder in this week’s episode. It’s a big issue that can impact outcomes whether in a legal case, in your job or in your fam

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It's All Your Fault: Q&A Lab

Q&A Lab – Answering Listener Questions

May 5, 2022

Bill and Megan return for their Q&A Lab to answer listener questions and respond to comments. They address HCPs in the family, ADHD, psychopathy, and reconnecting with HCPs.

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It's All Your Fault season 1, episode 26 • Will Smith: High Conflict or Just Upset?

Will Smith: High Conflict or Just Upset?

April 14, 2022

The slap heard around the world. Obviously this was a high conflict situation, but was it a one-off incident resulting from a highly stressed person, aka Will Smith? Or two highly stressed people, Smith and comedian Chris Rock? Or did either of them show

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