Matthew and Riki welcome special guest Mandy Kaplan, comedian and host of the Make Me a Nerd podcast. They explore the journey of discovering nerd culture later in life, breaking down stereotypes about who gets to be a “nerd,” and examining how mainstream and geek culture continue to merge in surprising ways.
What defines someone as a “nerd” in today’s culture?
Mandy describes herself as a “mainstream mom” who loves Taylor Swift and Housewives but had always shied away from Star Wars, Star Trek, and other traditional nerd culture. Approaching 50, she decided to explore this world through her podcast, where guests introduce her to their favorite nerdy media. Matthew and Riki discuss how the definition of “nerd” has evolved, suggesting it’s less about what you’re interested in and more about how deeply you engage with it—whether that’s creating charts about Star Trek planets or Top Chef recipes.
How accessible should nerd media be to newcomers?
The hosts discuss the balance between creating media for longtime fans versus welcoming newcomers. Mandy shares how she’s learned to forgive herself for not understanding all the lore and background in some properties, instead focusing on the elements she can enjoy. They agree the best media works on multiple levels—like Sesame Street appealing to both children and adults—allowing both newcomers and devoted fans to find something meaningful.
How has the perception of nerd culture changed over generations?
Matthew reflects on growing up when nerds were socially ostracized, contrasting with today when Marvel movies dominate the box office. They discuss how the internet and streaming services have transformed nerd culture from niche to mainstream, creating communities for people who might not excel in traditional social settings. Riki points out how fantasy sports have bridged the traditional gap between “jocks” and “nerds.”
What unexpected connections do people find in nerd culture?
The conversation highlights surprising moments of connection, like Mandy’s encounter with a “Kardashian-looking” stranger who enthusiastically discussed the same fantasy novel she was reading. They explore how media that might seem designed for specific demographics often resonates across unexpected audiences when given a chance.
Other topics discussed:
- The stigma attached to certain media and how it affects people’s willingness to try new things
- How streaming services have revolutionized access to niche content
- The philosophical and ethical questions embedded in science fiction and fantasy
- The blurring lines between traditional “nerdy” activities and mainstream interests
- The gatekeeping sometimes found in fan communities and why it’s problematic
- How fantasy sports represent a form of nerdy engagement that’s become widely accepted
- Shows like Severance and The Orville that surprised Mandy with their emotional depth
The Power of Curiosity Over Judgment
The episode concludes with a reflection on approaching media with curiosity rather than judgment. Matthew quotes Ted Lasso’s speech about being curious instead of judgmental, applying it to how we engage with different forms of entertainment. Mandy emphasizes how her podcast isn’t about criticizing beloved franchises but finding what resonates personally, even in unexpected places. The hosts celebrate how nerd culture continues to expand and welcome new fans, creating connections across different interests and generations.
Check out Mandy’s podcast Make Me a Nerd, also on the TruStory FM podcast network.
