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How to Split a Toaster • Season 9 • Episode 10 • Becoming a Stronger Parent During Divorce with Heather Quick

Becoming a Stronger Parent During Divorce with Heather Quick

Navigating Divorce While Parenting: How to Put Your Kids First

Seth and Pete sit down with Heather Brooke Quick, the founder and CEO of Florida Women’s Law Group, to discuss how to become a better, stronger parent during and after divorce. Heather shares her expertise on helping clients navigate co-parenting challenges and putting their children’s needs first.

Seth, Pete, and Heather dive into the importance of focusing on the big picture and remembering that co-parenting is a lifelong commitment. They discuss strategies for keeping animosity in check, even when dealing with contentious issues like finances. Heather emphasizes the value of taking the high road and modeling positive behavior for your children.

Questions we answer in this episode:

  • How can I shield my kids from the negative aspects of divorce?
  • What’s the best way to communicate with my ex about parenting issues?
  • How much should I share with my kids about the divorce process?

Key Takeaways:

  • Always prioritize your children’s well-being over conflicts with your ex
  • Be mindful of your reactions and behavior, as your children will learn from your example
  • Consider therapy or counseling to help your children process their emotions during divorce

The conversation also touches on the importance balance of maintaining transparency with your children about age-appropriate aspects of the divorce, such as changes in finances or living arrangements. Seth, Pete, and Heather offer guidance on how to have these conversations without putting your children in the middle of adult issues.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the challenges of parenting during and after divorce. With Heather’s expertise and Seth and Pete’s relatable insights, you’ll gain valuable tools for putting your children first and building a strong foundation for your post-divorce family.

Plus, we tackle a listener question – with Heather! – about when to file for divorce when pregnant.

Links & Notes

Seth Nelson is a Tampa based family lawyer known for devising creative solutions to difficult problems. In How to Split a Toaster, Nelson and co-host Pete Wright take on the challenge of divorce with a central objective — saving your most important relationships with your family, your former spouse, and yourself.