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Matthew Has Spawned: From Hospital Detour to New Parenthood

After weeks of careful planning, Matthew’s baby arrived in the middle of the night—at a completely different hospital than expected.

In this episode, Matthew shares their unfiltered birth story: the telltale signs Mary initially dismissed, the frantic drive across town, and their first days as a brand-new parent navigating meconium diapers and jaundice.

In this episode, we discuss:

  • How do you know when labor is actually starting vs. false alarms?
  • What happens when the hospital you planned for is full and you get diverted?
  • Why did we choose to find out the baby’s sex beforehand?
  • What’s it really like doing your first diaper changes on a newborn?
  • How do you handle the unexpected physical realities of newborn care (meconium, jaundice, temperature regulation)?
  • What does it feel like to transition from “future parent” to “current parent”?

Welcome to Once and Future Parent, where the parenting timeline gets the roundtable it deserves. Join hosts Matthew Fox (brand new parent), Mandy Kaplan (mom to a high-schooler), and Pete Wright (father of mostly-launched grown kids) as they gather to compare notes from three different stages of family life.