The Health & Fitness Issue: Dumbledore Is My Trainer Now

Welcome to All the Feelings: Adulting, where fitness isn’t about abs, it’s about survival—and emotional support comes with a side of pepperoni.

In this episode, Pete confronts a lifelong love-hate relationship with exercise (spoiler: mostly hate) and shares how working with a trainer finally reframed strength as energy storage, not just punishment. Protein becomes more than a punchline—it’s a power-up. Tommy, meanwhile, peels back the anxious layers of adult healthcare avoidance and delivers a heartfelt exploration of iatrophobia—the very real fear of doctors. From raccoon-infested crawl spaces to gym myths, shame spirals to colonoscopy bragging rights, this episode is probably not your way to health, strength, and medical care in adulthood.

Bonus: historical sexism, magical poop, and the emotional complexity of car snacks. Welcome to adulthood.

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About the show

Nobody trained us for any of this, and yet here we are, filing taxes and hosting people in our homes. Pete Wright and Tommy Metz III talk through the feelings that come with adulthood — the big ones, the stupid ones, and the ones you'd rather not name out loud.

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