When someone dies, grief isn’t the only thing you inherit—you also get a 14-step puzzle involving Costco, digital passwords, and 50 certified copies of a death certificate. This week, Pete and Tommy wade into the bureaucratic undertow of mortality and discover that dying is easy; it’s the paperwork that’ll kill you.
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The stuff that makes you feel small… even though you look big.
When someone dies, grief isn’t the only thing you inherit—you also get a 14-step puzzle involving Costco, digital passwords, and 50 certified copies of a death certificate. This week, Pete and Tommy wade into the bureaucratic undertow of mortality and discover that dying is easy; it’s the paperwork that’ll kill you.
This week, Pete and Tommy confront the double agents of adult life: your dreams and your spine. From surreal nightmares about misplaced cars to very real betrayals by your own plantar fascia, it’s a full-body descent into the absurdity of aging.
When a parent is back in the dating pool, and it’s somehow both adorable and terrifying. Meanwhile, Tommy learns that traveling with aging parents requires less speed and more patience—and possibly a tactical hot sandwich delay plan.
What does it mean to apologize like an adult—and why does grief support always feel like a pop quiz you’re destined to fail? This week, Pete and Tommy explore why grown-up regrets are messier than ever, and how sometimes the best support is just showing up with a pizza.
Pete feels like a laid-off CEO now that his kids have moved out, while Tommy wonders why his rescue dog acts like a saboteur at the beach. It’s an episode about growing up, letting go, and what to do when someone pees on footware.
Pete and Tommy take on the emotional chaos of productivity and procrastination, where calendar clutter becomes a spiritual crisis and analog clocks might just save your life. Also, the story of Franz Ferdinand—yes, that one—becomes a surprisingly perfect PSA for checking your to-do list.
Ever started a fight in your head, won it spectacularly, only to realize the other person didn’t even show up to the battlefield? Welcome to adulthood, where conflict is less about actual shouting and more about side-eyeing someone into oblivion while whispering “I’m fine” with enough passive-aggression to wilt a cactus.
This week, Pete accidentally runs for office and Tommy desperately tries to get selected for jury duty—two adults chasing civic engagement like it’s a slightly weird amusement park ride with no height requirement. Along the way, we unpack the absurd beauty of local government, honor the sacred power of the “I Voted” sticker, and guide you through a meditation that ends—quite naturally—in institutional collapse.
Why is it so hard to make friends as an adult—and even harder to keep them? Pete and Tommy dive into the shame, science, and slow fade of adult friendships.
Pete faces the gym. Tommy faces the doctor. Together they unpack protein, strength, and adulting with a pulse over 130 bpm.
In the Season 10 premiere, Pete and Tommy confront the myth of the American Dream, one broken oven and terrifying IRS form at a time. From homeownership FOMO to tax-time existential spirals, it’s a full-frontal emotional audit of what it means to feel wildly unprepared… again.
What if aging were a prescription you couldn’t opt out of? Season 10 of All The Feelings launches with KOFF-N, the (seriously totally fake) pharmaceutical that reminds us all: adulthood is incurable, but at least it’s kind of funny.
Who are we kidding. This season is all about the stuff we did wrong.
Happy New Year. The Little Women want to play Celebrity so ready yourself to open the BV in NYC.
What happens when Twinkies, Ding-Dongs, and Snickers become iced coffee? Join Pete, Tommy, and Mandy as they bravely (or foolishly) explore this bizarre flavor frontier, questioning our cravings and the very nature of taste itself in a caffeinated chaos that’s possibly hilarious and unquestionably unsettling.
Pete and Tom explore the virtues of kindness and patience, from everyday annoyances to cultural moments, pondering their true meaning and impact. Expect laughs and thoughtful insights as they dissect mindful patience and the challenges of genuine kindness in the modern world.
Pete and Tommy wrestle with the sin of greed, from iPhones to DVD collections. Join them as they explore the psychology of materialism and question their own consumerist habits – and probably yours, Dave.
Pete and Tom explore the history and surprising social impact of the temperance movement, from its philosophical origins to its influence on women’s suffrage, with a memorable story about an unfortunate martini habit. They also play “Temper Temper,” a game show testing their knowledge of Prohibition.
This week on All the Feelings: Sins & Virtues, we’re revisiting envy and pride with a clip show featuring “hilarious” highlights and “fresh” insights into these complex emotions.
This week on All the Feelings: Sins & Virtues, we’re diving into the fascinating and sometimes fraught concept of diligence. Join Tommy and Pete as they explore how different cultures view hard work, and whether a “good day’s work” is a universal ideal or a recipe for burnout.
This week on All the Feelings: Sins & Virtues, Tommy and Pete unpack the sin of gluttony, exploring how our insatiable appetites for more than just food are shaping our world. Tune in as they dissect the cultural evolution of overconsumption and Tommy confesses to a surprising personal indulgence that’s got him feeling a little stuffed.
This week on Sins and Virtues, Pete and Tommy explore the surprising history of chastity, from medieval myths to modern interpretations of an ancient concept. Tune in to discover the shocking truth about chastity belts and how this “virtue” has been used to control and empower throughout history.
Tommy and Pete dig into that special kind of anger… you know the kind… when your lizard brain reminds you that it feels so good to be a giver.
Join Pete and Tommy as they explore the virtue of humility, diving into its historical transformation and modern relevance, and they uncover how humility balances pride and fosters genuine connection.
Pete and Tommy get frisky this week as they explore the lascivious legends of lust, the sin that defines both not having any idea what you’re missing and feeling bad about it.
This week on All The Feelings, Pete and Tommy navigate the tricky waters of modern charity, from guilt-inducing donation requests to the perils of being “charity shamed.” They explore the historical roots of charity, adore oatmeal, and ponder the challenges of discussing this virtue in a world where it’s so tightly intertwined with religious beliefs.
Tommy and Pete are back at it again, tackling the oh-so-deadly(?) sin of sloth in the season 9 premiere of All The Feelings. Prepare to have your mind blown as they bravely challenge the notion that taking a break is a one-way ticket to eternal damnation, all while exploring the riveting history of the seven deadly sins – because who needs Netflix when you’ve got 4th-century theologians?
They’re playing with us. They’re making us dance like marionettes. They’re the seven deadly sins and the seven heavenly virtues and Pete and Tommy are going to see what makes them think they’re so special this season.
Tommy and Pete embrace a bigger canvas in season eight of the emotional podcast no one asked for.
Sodas and TikTok and Forced Nostalgia? What more do you want for our final season break episode?
What’s this? A bonus consumables episode? It’s true! This month, Mandcave’s Mandy Kaplan is back to help us sip a set of seven weird fizzy sodas!
Stuck on finding the perfect birthday present for your loved ones? We’re here to help! Plus VR, vocabulary and a fizzy teaser!
This year’s consumable episode focuses on the tiny shelf right below the chips in your grocer’s snack aisle with special guest, the carb-avoidant Mandy Kaplan.
Welcome to the first of our member bonus episodes for season 8 of All the Feelings!
Tommy and Pete are wrapping up Season 8 with a banger and heading straight to the mountain top… then, on brand, heading straight back down again.
Fear not, dear listener! This spooky episode of All the Feelings will have you shaking in your boots with harrowing tales of terror!
Pete and Tom are on the up and up this week, apart from a weird digression on the dangers of dance on carpet, and bring you tales to help you wrap your heart around optimism.
Pete and Tommy are dancing with the green-eyed monster as they take a walk down memory lane with their experiences with Jealousy.
You don’t need an application… you’re in the club already, right? It’s CLUB STRESS! And this week, your club counselors, Tommy and Pete, will share in disturbing detail just how much your annual club dues are costing you.
What does it mean to belong? When’s the last time you asked yourself that question? Turns out, ol’ Tommy and Pete have been taking an awful lot forgranted in the belonging camp and this week marks a real reckoning on the research front. It’s Cults, Race, and Fandoms all the way down!
Pete and Tommy dig deep into doubt, the feelings that come with it, and the feelings that drive us to test the world when it just feels fishy.
Welcome to another episode of the global sensation All The Feelings, where we dive into the wacky world of emotions, and today, we’re talking about pride. Not the fabulous, rainbow-colored kind (though we love that too), but the emotion of pride.
So far, we’ve felt the feelings of the now. This week, Pete and Tommy head for the feelings of yesteryear.
Joy is way more than just being happy – it’s an ongoing state of deep delight in the stuff you care about most. Researchers say joy comes from living your values, connecting with others, and being your best self. We say those researchers aren’t thinking creatively enough about how to use joy as a weapon. Are we learning the wrong lessons this season? Oh well.
Pete and Tommy truck in some meticulously well-charted waters this week, and in so doing, Pete gets flummoxed and Tommy finds Biblical levels of embarrassment.
Tommy and Pete cement themselves in the role of weird staring guy in an island paradise.
Tommy stamps out elitism everywhere all the time and Pete is in search of authentic happiness for a listener.
Pete’s lamenting the layoffs while Tommy is poking at pugilism.
Tommy, as a man, does some fashion explanation while Pete probes the not-to-deep depths of his own memory.
Tommy finds fear from above while Pete helps a listener defeat dreams of academic dread.
Tommy remembers just how much he wants to forget while Pete brings a reminder that we are all fungible resources.
If you STICK around, you might just find we show you a future you can’t turn off.
Don’t worry, we’re sure your therapist thinks you’re funny. Just make sure you’re not unconscious during your sessions.
Have you found your one thing? Probably not, but let’s not feel too bad about it. Besides, you’re too busy climbing sidewalk curbs with a step ladder.
What if you threw a party and no one showed, AND you didn’t have your phone?
We’re aging and that’s not making us better with our tech. Plus, a listener doesn’t do the sticky.
We’re not having dreams to aspire to. Plus, we have problem over-talking about stowaways.
We open our seventh season with critters and a global pandemic. On brand.
Life is hard. That’s why it’s time to let go! Come on down to WTS Island: The Hottest Haven on Earth… While Earth Still Exists!
Tommy and Pete anchor another season of anxieties, fears, and phobias in a case of canned mixed coolers. In season 6, Pete and Tommy face fandom, bugs, drones, and swelling.
Pete and Tommy are joined by the Mandcave podcast’s Mandy Kaplan for a tour of bad mixed drinks which they are objectively bad at drinking.
Tommy & Pete report on their travels, Joe Rogan, short filmmaking, and a feature on the largest truckstop in the land.
Pete and Tom check-in after weeks off their regular recording schedule and talk about travel habits, young medical professionals, and the Colbert Questionert.
In the final episode of season six, Pete comes clean about Prince and Tommy comes clean about a fandom much, much darker.
Drones are off the leash, did you bring your card? and don’t worry, we won’t tell your mom you watch porn… tell us what’s really going on…
The drones are dogs. They all have online dating profiles. And this week, it’s time for your performance review.
‘Heavy’ listener follow-up, trouble going under, and [GESTURES BROADLY], the state of the world highlight today’s anxiety menu!
We’ve found the sequel to Saucy-Sauce, and it is boozy. We take a trip down grief ally by way of Liceville. Plus, a guided meditation dedicated to the sewer workers of London.
Performance anxiety for all! This week, hosts of the MandCave podcast on TruStory FM, Mandy Kaplan and Mandy Fabian, join us to talk about nerves, shakes, and gastrointestinal distress that comes with being a professional performer.
The smell of fear, addressing meat on bones, the underground town down under, and the brand new What’s That Smell? Patent-pending IN-FLAMMO-XIETY this week on the show!
Nicknames. Please use responsibly. Also, Tom talks swallowing and Pete helps a listener with a special kind of heaviness.
No one asked for it… except the sauces. This week on the show, Pete and Tom deign to dip.
This week on the show, we finally have our playlist act together, we share Tommy’s childhood nickname in public, swallowing, and slipping into the firey center of the earth. So… big show!
Pete gives the crypto-creep update, Tom plays the pilot in Catch Him If You Can, and we take on a listener submission that might just have us bouncing around the waves for days.
Nose spray for social anxiety? Get ready for it. Also, we’re taking on the anxieties we leave for our descendants and the number 13.
Pete asks how YOU funny, Tom fears his lost handiness, and a dear listener has a lesson for us on trauma and restaurant service.
Tommy and Pete lean into the delicious metaphorical anxiety sauce that drenches their lives, and some literal sauces, too. In season 5, Pete and Tommy face bugs, eat stuff, and are generally sorry about all of it, even the stuff you send in to the show.
Most of this episode is about restaurants that have damaged us in some way. Some of the episode is about Broadway, high school, and cave panic.
Tommy revels in our upcycled food future … especially the bugs! Plus, masks make you invisible (no, they don’t), injection panic, and big doors.
No one asked for it… except the sauces. This week on the show, Pete and Tom deign to dip.
AI lookin’ out for us. Pete helps a listener feel free in the chair while Tommy is on the hunt for Dr. Puff-n-stuff.
Clean your glasses. Watch out for the ghouls under your bed. Stay out of the metropolitan water delivery business
Kickstart your back-ups, Sheriff Woody is loose. Tommy’s terrified of Little Tommy 2 while Pete should just give up and stop wearing pants to meetings.
Don’t drive while listening to this episode. Also, Tommy helps a listener get back … at everyone … at once. And Pete just hopes this will never, ever, ever end.
Introducing Shocktato. Also, Tommy struggles with tube time overload and Pete finds solace in escape.
Pete uses his big brain to think again… and again and again while Tommy fights for the right to recline.
Pete helps a listener find a friend in time while Tommy is generally sorry.
Pete expounds on the long-running perils of railroad tie tag while Tommy and Foster come to a pandemic impasse.
Pete chronicles the perils of feeling anything at all while Tommy exercises his inner Lawnmower Man daemons.
Bumble snoozes, the pen leads to the darkest nights of the soul, and exercises in poor storage.
Are there are more villainous creepies than hornets? Pete fights the purge while Tom winces at the wheel.
Surprising no one, we have pandemic body issues. Plus, social anxiety… and a little dose of a listener’s struggles to choose… or do we?
Pandemic. Politics. WAP. Just when we thought we were out of anxieties to unpack, 2020 happened.
Tommy and Pete dive into the bureaucracy that underpins the anxiety industrial complex. In season 4, Pete and Tommy invent new words, ditch dining out, and once again face the down-there fears that plague them … and their listeners.
Pete and Tom help a listener approach the long, dark path of apathy, and then cut open their inner podcaster.
Tommy finds joy hidden in the joy disguised as joy masquerading as trauma while Pete helps a listener with gravity … again.
Pete embraces the long-cut while Tommy helps a listener keep the silver cord tight.
Tommy channels an otter prison while Pete helps a listener with gravity.
Pete faces an industrialist nightmare while Tommy helps a listener move beyond buoyant butterflies.
Tommy comes face to face with a new nemesis and responds appropriately, while Pete helps a listener feel better about feeling dirty.
Pete finally moves aside and frees a new generation to experience out of this world anxiety while Tommy picks, and picks, and picks.
Tommy has prepared a list of places in which it is appropriate to ‘oil oneself up’ while Pete helps a listener to stand face-to-face with their inner Scarecrow.
Pete devours an anxiety that should be a test for itself while Tommy helps a listener to see that the grass, sometimes, isn’t always greener.
Tommy is on a hunt for fear and isolation and finds it in northern California while Pete helps a listener to maybe not see so much after all.
Pete tries to hug the darkness while Tommy helps a listener find peace in verticality.
Tommy yells at people who yell at clouds while Pete helps a listener who has already helped herself. It’s a real gas. Welcome to season four, everybody.
It’s time for the season 4 trailer, soldier.
Tommy and Pete face down the legends of their darkest anxieties… and yours, too. In season 3, Pete and Tommy unveil the dark truth about their podcasting endeavor and answer the question of what goes pee in the night.
This week, Pete and Tommy bring you the round-robin, rapid fire anxiety draft you didn’t know you’ve been waiting for all your life.
Tommy faces the challenge of words falling from his face while Pete stares gently into the fog of the unknown.
Pete is here to remind you that if you’re not feeling good about the world, you’re feeling bad about it, while Tommy has plans to strip silence from your future conversations.
Tommy attempts peace with his future overlords while Pete helps a listener see peace in ghosting the e-anxiety.
Pete is stuck in the meta-cognitive gap while Tommy saves a listener from sweet, sweet perfection.
Remember that time Pete did the escape room? Tommy did one, and his was a horror-filled nightmarescape. This is his report.
Tommy takes to the couch while Pete helps a listener to stay aloft.
Pete goes deep into the anxiety diorama while Tommy helps a listener find a mealtime tribe.
Tommy avoids swinging clocks while Pete helps a young listener own the night.
Pete’s stuck in the stocks while Tommy hits the city of Los Angeles straight in the selfie.
Tommy is really in the mood to frolic with no outlet and Pete brings a listener submission that celebrates flamboyance with a cherry on top.
Pete explores options for general home protection while Tommy brings lessons in restaurant etiquette on behalf of those cursed as recipients of grand gestures.
Tommy explores what his life might have looked like had he fully exercized his mad skillz while Pete hits the dark web and gets blitzed on slime.
Tommy and Pete take on the greatest mysteries of the universe. In season 2, the crew takes on new anxieties and welcomes submissions from voices of the world in this follow-up to their “hit” first season.
In this final episode of season 2, Pete seeks safety in the arms of the FDA while Tommy struggles for freedom from the mighty grasp of a waterlogged Italian city.
Tommy helps a listener through a disturbing case of Neesonitis while Pete struggles to hide from academics bearing heavy books.
Pete helps a listener tilt into the winds of change while Tommy faces the black depths of his toiletry kit.
Tommy digs deep to help a listener distressed with specter-spook while Pete seeks the solution to the generation gap.
Pete helps a listener with the find peace under the giant thumb of a byzantine system while Tommy struggles to gift the long arm of history with anything more than a list of nouns.
Tommy helps a listener find the secrets in plain sight while Pete struggles at the blackboard.
Pete helps a listener (in no way whatsoever) to overcome a personal pestilence while Tommy mourns (in no way whatsoever) the loss of an esteem-maker.
Tommy helps a listener navigate pavement in clever new ways while Pete confronts a dark confusion in face of tools for joy.
Pete’s looking for grime in the dark places while Tommy is in a most perilous race against his own cheeks.
Tommy helps a listener through pesky pen pessimism while Pete builds a strong case for the end of all medical science.
Tommy takes to the trolls while Pete brings a listener challenge and advice for the espionage-minded.
Tommy looks inside himself and finds his inner 😻 while Pete reminisces about false hope at the bottom of an empty 💰.
A sometimes-funny podcast about humans and their anxieties. In our inaugural season, Pete and Tommy explore their anxieties and learn to laugh along the way.
The dynamic shifts when robots take over the show.
It’s the last show of our first season. To celebrate, we decided to do a little self-indulgent navel-gazing because we heard podcast audiences adore it when podcasts do that kind of thing.
At long last, Tommy unleashes the swarm while Pete fights to flaunt his … ummm … outer strength?
Pete laments the sad shortage of railings in the world, and Tommy’s just sitting there watching the clock… and waiting…
Pete pokes the dragon of our own making while Tommy feels the pangs of embarrassment decades in the making.
Pete sees someone else’s life flash before his eyes, and Tommy dodges daggers doggedly.
Tommy visits the darkness and in the process finds Shyamalan while Pete beats his inner child to the Twinkies.
Pete strives to relate to a brave new world. Tommy worries that in that world, we’re all just meat targets.
Tommy conjures demons of the deep and Pete goes all-in on hemp.
Pete battles his urge to hide everything he creates. Ironically, so does Tommy.
Tommy talks to hush the sound of judgment and Pete prepares for the long rest, prematurely.
Pete takes an uncomfortable journey inward and Tommy faces the paper monster while on the injured list.
Pete takes on an odiferous demon and Tommy confronts the limits of physics and aerospace engineering.