Watch Those Blind Spots!
The very qualities that help us fall in love can at the same time be the on-ramp for the highway to hell. Avoiding a high-conflict relationship requires looking beyond attraction, chemistry, availability & compatibility, and recognizing your own particular blind spots.
Bill and Megan talk about three types of ‘blind spot’ fact-finding and how to understand how your vulnerabilities can blind you.
Links & Other Notes
BOOKS
- Dating Radar: Why Your Brain Says Yes to “The One” Who Will Make Your Life Hell
- 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life
DATING RADAR TEST & SURVEY RESULTS
ARTICLES
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You can also find these show notes at our site as well.
Note: We are not diagnosing anyone in our discussions, merely discussing patterns of behavior.
- (00:00) – Welcome to It’s All Your Fault
- (01:46) – Avoiding Toxic Relationships a
- (03:20) – Why Our Brain Says Yes
- (04:25) – Low Self-Esteem
- (06:03) – Loneliness or Grieving
- (08:08) – Naïve Beliefs
- (12:36) – Mistaking Warning Signs for Love
- (27:18) – Last Thoughts
- (34:34) – Reminders & Coming Next Week: Dating Radar Q&As
